SO YOU DONT LIKE THE SMELL OF GARBAGE

A PROFILE MISSED

Let me explain this neighbor a little more.  Having worked in National Intelligence - almost embarrassing how I missed it.

  

Before we moved in, we met him.  Nice guy.  He watched the house get built, sending some updates. How Valuable! A good neighbor looking out for you.  We moved in late 2023.  Had some discussions. Met his wife.  We were wowed! we like this couple.  They were so polite and considerate to others.  Really looking out for others!

Some of the themes in discussion were not picked up on though.  Example:

- this neighbor doesn't do right on X issue (parks in the street)

- this neighbor doesn't do right on X issue (basket ball net or something like that)

- this neighbor parks wrong in their driveway  - should not be over the sidewalk

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The wife joined the covenant committee (didn't know that until March 2025 - didn't care)

The husband ran for director on the HOA board in March

PROFILE: Charming individual, works in sales.  Talks to others up and down  the street.  See him walking up the down the street when I am trapped in my office working my 12 hours a day.  Man o Man, he has a LOT of free time.  Walking up and down the street.  Taking inventory.  Social to discuss things with others.

 

Now the light bulb goes on!! 

 

No, not a valuable neighbor! OMG!

- Busy body Types

- Interest in everyone's business

- POLITICIAN!!!!?  Promise you things but not really do it

- Desire for POWER and dictate others actions 

... Thank god!  We just had the community "ELECT" him as the first HOA Resident as Director on the HOA board!

 

You get it yet?  Why this trashcan run was worthy to write down?   We just elected a busy body, who has exhibited desire for power and may dictate to the community.   How fun, AM I RIGHT?

COUPLE PHILOSOPHY POINTS

My About page there are three things that I don't like - Cowards, Bullies and Politicians. 

I have learned the hard way with these types of personality - I am hopeful you never have to find out if you live here in WILD-LIES. 

When you get burned - it takes a LOT to come back and trust you... Good news for some: they rub elbows with this guy so they will all be taken care of (it is called cronyism) -- the rest of you - good luck.

 

For those new to the southern region of the USA: In the south, you have a problem with your neighbor - you go talk to them to work it out. This is called "neighborly" 

 

There are people who approach things by hiding behind rules and authority with interest to tell you what they want you to do!  Not a discussion, a demand!  Have you ever heard " It is not what you say always but how you say it?"  Applies here.  When you run someone to the HOA and don't talk to your neighbor - in the South it can be perceived as "DISREPECTFUL".  

 

Sure, you have the right to do it, but that does not mean you should. 

 

This (like the HOA conflict) didn't have to go this route.  This was determined by someone else, not me.  I just had to respond to it.

SHED LINKAGE - Is there a theme?

When this shed debacle all happened.  The curiosity exhibited continually from the "Neighbor" was not there at all.  Have a neighbor on the other side of our property and they asked (April 2025) "why are you taking that down?" I explained the HOA overlord story. 

 

The TRASHCAN RUN neighbor - not one question.  No curiosity at all?  I wonder why that is? 

- What are the chances he already knows (before he was even elected as Director) and is either involved or informed?

 

This is why I wrote this as find it important as a character evaluation for "the community".  My Home page has a picture of a firing squad.  That was purposeful.  We may all soon understand that picture better in the near future.  During the HOA Board meeting (April 2025); HOA residents are lined up for FINES.  This Neighbor (Director) he had a LOT of interest in how often the HOA Management company did enforcement checks,  what to do if there are violations after hours, who was being foreclosed on, how to use enforcement to "ramp up" the pain on anyone receiving fines.

 

If you think my neighbor of mine is going to be a cooler head - you and I will have to disagree.  Past behavior is indicative of future behavior and the position you may be living with is " you better tighten up and do what you are told!